So he plurk this one day : Offering free couple shots for Valentine's Day
Heck, if its free, why not?
(:P anyway not really getting married also, so dun see the sense in spending so much on it, better yet if its free!)
Then he asked me this question :
I want to know what kind of things / attributes / characteristics that defines you, Alex, the both of you & the relationship.
It would usually be questions which i ask clients who want to get an identity job done for their company. So when he throws back the question back to me, i gotta start thinking already :P
I guess I'm always a happy-go-lucky girl. The slightest of jokes makes me laugh, loud. :P I guess it wouldnt be me if i'd just sudenly say i wasn't hungry (unless i'm sick) or a helpless romantic. Can't help it i guess, all those shoujos and korean dramas really took a toll on my upbringing (har har) I believe in karma, what comes around, goes around.
I've always believed that in a relationship, its always a 2 way form of communication. And to understand that communication is crucial. Else you'd just get misunderstandings all along the road.
When i first started with Alex, i seriously didnt know how/who/what he is.
Its after my 1st meeting with him (and Josh, hur hur, didnt forget you la) i find him super fun to be with, the jokes he crack, the crazy expressions XD (As i'm typing this i'm smiling like an idiot :P)
So after a few dates, we finally become a couple, not without my "enthusiasm" to literally PUSH him to ask me to be his girl. :P I guess i can say i'm more of the planner (or is it pusher?) in the relationship. Every step i take, it was to make both of us happy :)
From planning trips, to what to eat (cuz i'm so picky with my food XD) i'll be the one to initiate it and having Alex to back me up. That's what i love about him, he's just so supportive in whatever i do. Of course there is the occasionally sarcasm when i do/say something stupid and he'd just call me a "kedongdong". XD (Virtually smacks him... :P)
As we're still learning about each other (yes i do believe it's a process that never stops) he give me surprises of secret hidden messages. Usually getting them during our month-niversary :P I guess its something for me to keep, to know that he's always thinking of me, whether we meet or not.
I just love the way we are together. How he takes care of me when we're out, making fun of me and giving into my cravings. Also that puts him the sensible one. This is to prevent me from going broke within 2 weeks of my pay by eating whatever i want XD
Alex is a quiet person actually. If you've noticed in most meetings (non-MH related) he'll just sit down there and just wait for a punchline to come in and we'll all burst out laughing after that XD I just love that when it happens.
I love it when we talk, we're able to, in-a-way, know what the other is going to say and will just burst out laughing :P There was once where "Falling For You" was played ALL THE FRAEKING time when i'm in his car! He even suspected i bribe the radio channels, the chinese ones are not spared LOL. Talking to each other in the morning, afternoon, evening and night somehow doesnt feel its ever enough.
Just listening to his voice just soothes me
I'm not sure whether I've answered the question, but i hope it does help Joshua get an idea of how he wants the pictures to be :P (hint : vintage and/or colourful!)
Josh DID deliver the pictures, errrr... a few months back and I only realized that I haven't posted it up yet...LOL but I just noticed that I've already posted up one which i love the most!
But the main reason for me posting this up is that... its our 3rd year anniversary :)
I know I've been missing out on a LOT of monthniversary but I guess its only fair that the anniversary plays an important role :)
So after having loads of fun for this 2 days...
Happy 3rd Anniversary Alex!





